And I fulfilled the promise I made last Thursday. I ranted on ‘BODY COUNT’. Kindly listen below and drop a comment. Thank you 😀
Body Count
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My daughter, all i can say to you is what an old sage said to his servant, “A key that can open many padlocks is known as a master key, while a padlock that any key can open is known as useless” A word is enough for the wise
Prince!!! I refuse to understand what the old sage said o. Weldone. Thanks for listening 🙂
The reason why women are judged as being a sluts or a whore for sleeping around with many men is because the reality is that its a man’s world. Men don’t get pregnant or have abortions. Women do. It sounds hypocritical i know but that’s the fact. In the days of old it was usual for men to go around the land and “sow their wild oats” (sleep around). Women were considered immoral of doing so. That’s the harsh truth. As for the number of guys a girl should sleep with or a number of girls a guy should sleep with, there’s no standard or set limit. It all depends on what the individual is comfortable with. In my opinion though, if a girl can be regarded as a whore for doing so, a man can be as well. It’s just a shame that society chooses to label the ladies while letting the men go free.
Sadly. thanks Usman
My own is…. there is no meter in a woman’s veejayjay! There is no way d guy would know (except if it is a well, of course). I really do not encourage ladies sleeping around but for some reasons these things happen. If as a lady, you are bothered about your body count, you should keep the number low…it is that simple. If you are bothered about what your future husband would say when he gets ‘in’, then use a vagina tightener(I don’t know if those things work sha). If you also know that you would feel bad if he finds out the number of guys you’ve slept with, then shut up! Don’t tell him about it. Just pray that none of your former bed mates is linked in any way to him. It is a small world. The reason why most girls are comfy with having sex with their exes is so that their body count will not be increased. This just leads to too much pain in the end. As for the guys, I don;t even know what to say. I have found out that most guys don’t wanna marry a virgin….. they just want a girl with a low body count. The number of people you sleep with does not justify anything in my opinion sha. I’d like to know my boo’s number but I wouldn’t wanna attach faces to the number(s).I really loved this podcast. It is probably my best yet… keep it up. Elusie 😀
Thank you Shughar. Thanks for always sharing your opinion. you are a darling :*
In this new world this body count business is becoming so irrelevant. I rather marry a woman that has been with half the planet but will keep my life peaceful than marry a virgin that won’t let me drink water and drop my cup in peace. It is a shame that society continues to issue double standard when it comes to promiscuity. Even on religious grounds can someone show men where it says a woman’s chastity is somehow worth more than that of a man. My take is that anyone can pull whatever number they want as long as they are mentally capable of handling it. But no need to quote the figure to anyone you’re seeing, and no point in asking really. Lets face it, any number that isn’t 0 or maybe 1 is too high for some people. So just keep it private. No be everything eye see mouth must talk.
How nice it will be if the mouth can say all the eyes sees. 😀
Boy count, Body count! sighs* it’s a dicey issue. In as much as premarital sex is wrong and I don’t support it, it sure does happen. So what should you do about it? Hmm….1. Keep as low as possible. 2. Its better to vague about numbers than being exact. Some people take it so personal and I don’t blame them. if your spouse is someone who takes it personal, tell him/her early enough before you progress too much. If they are going to stay, they will. Body count or Not, person wey go stay go stay
Person wey go stay go stay. #fact Thanks Obafemi jare
At the risk of sounding like a sissy and a JUman, i’ll say what i have tu regardless. Its shocks me how we talk about sex as if it shld b a normal thing in the first place. See eh, sex is not just a physical thing. Its soooo spiritual, obviously much more than we realise these days. God whu designed it did so tu tie twu souls together and we go go around sleeping around like there’s no repercussion. When ppl go start dey get wahala dem no go knw weh d tin dey kom from, wen dem don tie tie dem soul wit different ppl. I sound BUSH abi. Well think what you must. To whole no b beans o. I am 29 and am a virgin ( yeah u fit think say i get one kynd deficiency sumwhere) buh thankfully i am guud in everyhow required tu b able tu get laid….eniways back tu d matta at hand sex outside marriage is WRONG!!! Body count ke, problem heappin ni. Every cause has an effect. #GodHelpUs. N yeah pls permit tu b anonymous, b4 una karry mouth kill me. God bless.