I have decided to be a snitch! So I was having a conversation with a couple of friends about why it is so difficult to find single datable men in Lagos, then a friend ( male) chips in and says “well you girls are always searching in the wrong places”.

Apparently men in Lagos have somehow been able to agree on certain locations to make moves on single women and just like a lot of other things they forgot to share the memo.

LEKKI-IKOYI BRIDGE

Surprised?  I am sure most of you that take the occasional morning or evening jog on the Lekki-Ikoyi bridge must have come across the men who while jogging are either; shirtless and constantly smiling at every woman on the bridge or the guy who happens to have enough water for everyone. Be sure to indulge them if you are a single woman.

PS: Look out for wedding bands, say no to entertaining married men.

AT WORK

So these days men love the “working class woman” so the office is just another pond filled with their kind of women and because some of you are too “to the books” at work, it becomes hard to notice the love of your life dropping hints.

PS: Please ladies keep your flirt radar on full blast at office especially if you have a single good looking boss *wink

NIGHT CLUBS

Remember the line from Chris Brown’s song “who says you can’t find love in the club, cos I wanna tell them they wrong”. Apparently men in Lagos ran with it. I honestly do not like the idea of dating people you meet at a club, but it seems to have worked for some people; so yeah night clubs.

AT WEDDINGS

A lot of men in Lagos go to weddings not only for free food, but also the buffet of single women.  Ladies, if a guy makes moves at a wedding remember to do the married vibes search.  I can never over emphasize the influx of married men posing to be single in Lagos.

SUPERMARKETS (ESPECIALLY SHOPRITE)

I had to highlight Shoprite because they always have these long ass queues, giving men the opportunity to make conversations that always end at your phone number request.

If you find yourselves at these places or occasions, prepare to be hounded by men looking for the bone of their bone or the ones looking for hook ups. There will always be that eighty percent chance of men trying to put an end to your single status, this way we can remain several steps ahead.

I’m chika a non conventional relationship, fashion and Lifestyle blogger. I worked two years working as an online content developer for a couple of blogs and websites In Nigeria. I launched my personal blog igboafricana in 2016 on blogspot, forcing me develop a knack for HTML and JavaScript which I later used in 2017 to design and rebrand my blog to what it is today. I enjoy making my readers laugh ! Blog: Igboafricana.com.ng